I have learned the hard way that things don't always go the way you want the to. Sometimes you have to let things go, yes it's hard but you have to or you will never move on. Moving on doesn't mean you have to forget them or have no kind of contact with them. You can talk, don't talk about the past if it;s going to get you mad. You should only talk about it if it's necessary. You shouldn't let the bad times effect the good times you have had. Nobody should go though pain but that's life. You have to go though pain if you can ever feel happiness. Happiness is something you have to have in a relationship. Without it your going to be miserable because your living a lie. Love is something you have to earn you just can't claim it. Love is the bond between to people that have interest in them and that's going to be there when you need them. There when your sad, crying, laughing, smelling, touching, etc, but what you really need in a relationship is trust. Without trust there can be no relationship, what your going to go to your friends house and they think your going to cheat on them or do something stupid with someone else. There going to worry about you at times, it's not that they don't trust you it's that they really care about you and don't want you to make a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes but not all the time you should learn your lesson the first time you make a mistake, and if you argue it's not bad there showing you that they don't wanna lose you to no one or to anything really. You have to make a commitment to the person you love or they will kill you.....just playing. Really though if you make a commitment to that person you know they have to do it back duh, but if you just finish braking up with someone don't go to another person so soon. Wait a while if you just go to another person so fast the person you used to be with is going to think damn he or she didn't really care about. You have to give respect to get respect, if your going to disrespect somebody don't think later on there going to want to have anything to do with you. Just remember you have to have trust without it your whole relationship will falls as fast as a bowling ball and that's truth.
